Anthony Kiedis’ girlfriend Eileen Kelly defends 33-year age gap with Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman

Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman Anthony Kiedis’ girlfriend, Eileen Kelly, fiercely defended their 33-year age gap and clapped back at criticism. While the sex educator, 30, didn’t specifically name Kiedis,…

Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman Anthony Kiedis’ girlfriend, Eileen Kelly, fiercely defended their 33-year age gap and clapped back at criticism.

While the sex educator, 30, didn’t specifically name Kiedis, 63, in her “My Boyfriend Is Double My Age” Vogue essay published April 21, she wrote about “dating someone significantly older.”

“There is something to be said for a man who’s simply had more time to get his s–t together, and my much older boyfriend seems genuinely excited to be with me,” she wrote.

Anthony Kiedis and Eileen Kelly attend Gagosian Celebrates Jonas Wood.
Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman Anthony Kiedis’ girlfriend, Eileen Kelly, defended their age gap in an essay for Vogue. Seen here: the couple in March. Getty Images for Gagosian
Anthony Kiedis and Everly Bear Kiedis attend a Los Angeles Lakers game.
In the essay titled “My Boyfriend Is Double My Age,” the podcaster wrote about “dating someone significantly older.” Seen here: Kiedis and Kelly at a Los Angeles Lakers game in March. Getty Images

“He is fully aware that he’s one lucky bastard,” Kelly added.

The “Going Mental” podcast host shared that she and Kiedis met at a birthday party, explaining that their “age gap didn’t register at first.”

“I had met someone interesting and magnetic; if anything, I assumed we’d just become friends,” she continued. “But when we exchanged numbers and made plans to get coffee.”

Eileen Kelly in a pink bikini top and pants on a boat with mountains and ocean in the background.
“There is something to be said for a man who’s simply had more time to get his s–t together, and my much older boyfriend seems genuinely excited to be with me,” Kelly (photographed above) stated. Instagram/@eileen
Anthony Kiedis of Red Hot Chili Peppers performing at the FIREAID Benefit Concert.
The sex educator claimed that Kiedis (seen above in January 2025) was “fully aware” he was “one lucky bastard.” Getty Images for FIREAID

Kelly called out beliefs that an older man dating a younger woman is “creepy” and “gross,” while the latter is believed to either “have daddy issues” or “be a gold-digger.”

“Is it really so difficult to imagine that connection can exist across generations, and that two people of different ages can find something real in each other?” she questioned.

The businesswoman also slammed the “unsolicited commentary in public,” including remarks such as, “Is that your dad?” and “Your daughter is so beautiful.”

Eileen Kelly wearing a pink cable-knit sweater, winking, sticking out her tongue, and making a peace sign.
Kelly (seen above) shared how their “age gap didn’t register at first.” Instagram/@eileen
John Frusciante and Anthony Kiedis performing on stage with Red Hot Chili Peppers.
She described the musician (seen here) as “interesting and magnetic.” Redferns

Kelly also reflected on how she cut ties with a friend who judged her relationship, saying, “We speak less now.”

The podcaster stated that people’s opinions about her relationship are, moreover, a reflection of themselves.

“From the inside, we’re mostly just two people doing the regular, ongoing work of moving through life together,” she concluded.

Eileen Kelly riding a horse, petting its neck, in a tropical landscape.
“Is it really so difficult to imagine that connection can exist across generations, and that two people of different ages can find something real in each other?” Kelly (seen above) questioned. Instagram/@eileen
Anthony Kiedis performing at a Red Hot Chili Peppers concert.
Kiedis (seen above in 1992) and Kelly were reportedly first seen together in November. Getty Images

Kelly and Kiedis have been spotted together on several occasions since November, according to E! News and People.

The couple was recently seen holding hands while at a post-Grammy party in February.

The following month, they were also seen together at Madonna and Guy Oseary’s Oscars bash and a Los Angeles Lakers game

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