Selena Gomez’s mom raises eyebrows with bizarre ‘joke’ about daughters: ‘They throw me in the trash’

Selena Gomez’s mom, Mandy Teefey, is attempting to put out a social media fire that she started herself. After sharing an Instagram post Sunday — that many fans took to…

Selena Gomez’s mom, Mandy Teefey, is attempting to put out a social media fire that she started herself.

After sharing an Instagram post Sunday — that many fans took to be a dig at Gomez and the pop star’s younger half-sister, Gracie — Teefey responded to one fan, claiming it was all in good fun.

“Girl. It’s typically moms not cool joke,” her reply read. “Calm down. lol.”

Page Six has reached out to Gomez’s rep for comment.

Mandy Teefey, Selena Gomez’s mother, in a black shirt with “GREAT MINDS WONDERMIND” written on it.
Selena Gomez’s mom, Mandy Teefey (pictured here in a selfie), made waves on social media with a bizarre “joke” about the pop star and her younger sister, Gracie. Instagram/@mandyteefey
Selena Gomez taking a mirror selfie with her younger sister Gracie Elliott Teefey.
In the caption of her Instagram post (seen above), Teefey called Gomez and Gracie her “greatest accomplishments, love me or not,” and referred to them alongside the phrase “they throw me in the trash.” Instagram/@mandyteefey
Selena Gomez taking a mirror selfie with her younger sister Gracie Elliott Teefey.
The post was led by a mirror selfie of Gomez and Gracie (seen here). Instagram/@selenagomez

Teefey’s reply was directly under a person’s comment that slammed the mom of two for stoking the fanbase with her “confusing” upload.

“WTF, Mandy. If you’re having issues with them, you shouldn’t post this on social media. People will take it out of context and keep hating on Selena,” the user argued. “I don’t know what’s going on, but go talk to your daughter instead of creating drama.”

The hubbub all began when Teefey, 50, posted a mirror selfie of Gomez, 33, and Gracie, 13, in a carousel Instagram post with the caption that began, “My greatest accomplishments, love me or not.”

“They are the coolest. I one day they will see what a bad ass I am and love me back as much as I love them. I’m just mom,” she wrote. “Who never gives up when they throw me in the trash. I tell ya mom you’re doing it wrong, maybe so, we will see. But no matter what I got your back.”

Mandy Teefey wearing a black hoodie and patterned glasses.
Many social media users took issue with Teefey (seen above in a selfie) for “creating drama” online and calling her out “strange choice” to share the post. Instagram/@mandyteefey
Selena Gomez and Gracie Elliott Teefey pose on the red carpet at the 80th Golden Globe Awards.
Teefey responded by telling them to “calm down.” (Gomez and Gracie are seen above at the 2023 Golden Globes.) Los Angeles Times via Getty Images

The slideshow was filled with memes and quotes — as well as another selfie of the “Hands to Myself” singer.

One slide featured a photo of a doll in a trashcan and the phrase, “Me when I have to run the business I manifested.” Another read, “She outgrew what drained her” written in the form of a neon sign.

A third stated, “Just to be clear, I’m that loyal friend who would take a bullet for you. But I’m probably also the reason we’re getting shot at. Balance matters.”

The post drew negative reactions from some fans, with one responding, “Posting about this as the parent is quite a strange choice queen 💔.”

Selena Gomez and her younger sister sit at an outdoor table with a plate of food, a drink, and chopsticks, overlooking the ocean at dusk.
A viral post on X read, “One must keep their personal life to themselves and realise their daughter is too big of a celebrity to throw such tantrums.” (Gracie and Gomez are pictured here.) Instagram/@selenagomez
Singer Selena Gomez and her mother Mandy Teefey at the 2010 Hollywood Style Awards.
Others, however, praised Teefey (pictured here with Gomez in 2010) for raising two “wonderful” and “amazing” daughters. WireImage

A viral post on X, which included a screenshot of Teefey’s post and has garnered more than 500,000 views read, “One must keep their personal life to themselves and realise their daughter is too big of a celebrity to throw such tantrums.”

Others, meanwhile, defended Teefey for others taking her words “out of context” and praised her for raising two “wonderful” and “amazing” daughters.

Teefey, who co-founded the mental health organization Wondermind with Gomez in 2022 and runs the company as CEO, celebrated the “Wizards of Waverly Place” alum’s wedding to Benny Blanco last September.

Selena Gomez and her sister Gracie Elliott Teefey in matching pajamas, sitting on a patterned rug.
Teefey co-founded the mental health organization Wondermind with Gomez (seen here in a social upload with Gracie) in 2022 and serves as the company’s CEO. Instagram/@selenagomez
Mandy Teefey and Selena Gomez posing at the 2012 Vanity Fair Oscar Party.
Teefey (seen here with Gomez at the 2012 Vanity Fair Oscar Party) reflected on her pop star daughter’s 2025 wedding to Benny Blanco last year as being “a perfect celebration for the most kick ass couple I know.” Getty Images for Vanity Fair

“What a perfect celebration for the most kick ass couple I know! The evening couldn’t have been more beautiful and perfect!” she wrote at the time via Instagram.

“All my love to my beautiful daughter @selenagomez and to the greatest son in law @itsbennyblanco!!!” she added, calling the ceremony “a fairytale come true” and “absolutely flawless!”

Guests at the star-studded ceremony included Taylor Swift, Paris Hilton, Ed Sheeran, Paul Rudd and Gomez’s “Only Murders in the Building” co-stars Martin Short and Steve Martin.

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